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THE BONDS OF SOCIETY
Wednesday, September 9, 1994
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The radical change in Soviet policies under Gorbachev has raised hopes for world peace to a level they
have not reached since the nuclear arms race began. In many ways, the change of climate is refreshing,
and I would not want to cast a cloud over it; but at the same time, I believe that if we look at our
world in the light of our theology, we cannot escape the conclusion that we have still a long way to
go. We are making progress, I would insist, but the millennium is not just around the corner. When our
own Pentagon defines peace as "permanent pre-hostility," we seem to have a problem right here at home.
We might start, then, by looking at what we mean by peace. The desire for peace finds one of its most
conspicuous forms in efforts toward disarmament, and especially toward the abolition of nuclear
weapons. The end of war, however, is not the same as the achievement of peace. A nuclear holocaust
would bring an and to war. Let me quote from Arcana Coelestia (n. 5662.2):
At this day scarcely anyone knows what is the "peace" which is mentioned in the Word; as in the
benediction. . . . Almost everyone believes that peace is security from enemies, and that it is
tranquillity at home, and among our companions; but this peace is not meant there, but a peace which
immeasurably transcends that peace. It is heavenly peace. . . . No one can be gifted with this peace,
except one who is led by the Lord, and is in the Lord, that is, in heaven, where the Lord is the all
in all. For heavenly peace inflows when the cupidities which originate from the love of self and of
the world have been taken away; for these are the things which take away peace, for they infest the
interiors of man, and cause him at last to place rest in unrest, and peace in things which cause
troubles; because [they cause him to place] delight in evils. So long as man is in these, he cannot
possible know what peace is; nor even so long as he believes that this peace is of no account.
The next thing that must be said is that heavenly peace is an active state. Again from Arcana
Coelestia (n. 454),
Some (suppose that heaven consists) in an idle life, in which they are served by others. But they are
told that no happiness ever consists in being at rest, and thence having happiness; for thus everyone
would want to have the happiness of others for himself; and when everyone wanted this, no one would
have it. Such a life would not be active, but idle, in which they would become torpid. . . . The
angelic life consists in use . . . .
This last statement, "the angelic life consists in use," bring us straight to the statement from which
my title is taken. It is from Marriage Love, and reads as follows:
No one is wise, or lives, for himself alone. . . . To live for others is to do uses. Uses are the
bonds of society, which are as many in number as there are good uses; and uses are infinite in number.
Marriage Love n. 18
"Uses are the bonds of society." The implications of this simple statement are extensive. Put together
with the previous quotations, it is saying that peace is something we must do. It is not just a nice
feeling, not the knowledge that no one wants to hurt us or that we are strong or isolated enough to be
safe. Peace is an active and constructive way of living together; and since it is inseparable from
use, we can experience it on any scale, simply by focusing on our own use in whatever situation we
find ourselves.
Let me give a simple and general example. It can be disturbing to be misunderstood. Say we have tried
to do something worthwhile, and others have see this as aggressive behavior, as an effort to butt in
or to put them down. As long as we focus on our own wounded ego, on the injustice we are suffering, we
are disturbed. But suppose we find the wisdom to look at our use in this situation. Suppose, that is,
we start trying to see what we can do that will actually make things better. Our whole mood changes.
We experience the kind of peace that comes when we are totally absorbed in doing something we love to
do.
"Uses are the bonds of society." This, I would suggest, is Swedenborg's answer to the Jacques Brel
song that was popular some time ago, "If We Only Have Love." To quote Swedenborg again,
Love and wisdom, without use, are not anything, but are only ideal entities, and do not become real
until they are in use; for love, wisdom, and use are three things which cannot be separated; if
separated, neither of them is anything.
The Apocalypse Revealed n. 875e
It is far too easy to get caught up in self-analysis, berating ourselves with the thought that we
should not be feeling the way we are. We try in vain to make ourselves feel differently, to suppress
the resentment or the anger, but this is simply not effective. What we can do much more usefully is to
shift our attention away from ourselves at such times. O.K., the anger and resentment are there. I may
not be able to banish them by an effort of will, but they do not need to control my behavior. Is there
anything I can do or say that will help? It may even be expressing the negative feelings--that is by
no means ruled out. It may very well be saying out loud, "That hurts," not to defend or justify
ourselves, but to help nurture mutual understanding. If if succeeds, we are delighted, and if it
fails, then we try something else. The main point is that we find ourselves operating from a place
within ourselves that is not threatened, from a place of peace. We find that place by focusing on the
use that can be found in the particular moment. "Love and wisdom, without use, are not anything, but
are only ideal entities, and do not become real until they are in use . . . ."
I think it is clear, on this scale, how inevitably and effectively "uses are the bonds of society."
All we have to do is to imagine a community in which this was the dominant spirit, in which every
problem that arose prompted people to look for the most helpful way to deal with it. It would be an
extraordinarily close and peaceful community, and at the same time a thoroughly active one. Further,
this kind of peace would be wonderfully resilient, because it would not depend on everything going
right all the time. It would not be destroyed by outbreaks of anger or even of violence. Such
incidents would instead call forth extra efforts, would call forth the very best the community could
muster.
Last winter, there was a newspaper article about a woman in the Midwest who styled herself as an
expert in writing effective letters of complaint, and who could back this up with results. Her first
rule, as I remember it, was to assume that the person she was complaining to was not the individual
who had made the mistake. As a result, her letters were never angry or self-righteous. She focused on
clarity, and wrote with the assumption that the company wanted to do things right. I would recommend
her as an example of a genuine peacemaker, and stress the fact that she was not making peace by
abdicating her own rights or by ignoring wrongs. If this were the prevalent attitude, we would have
not only a "kinder and gentler" America, but a more just one as well.
There is abundant evidence, however, that this is not the prevalent attitude. After a brief affair
with idealism during the Kennedy years, we seem as a nation to have fallen hopelessly in love with
money, for its own sake. Polls taken of high school seniors show the principal goal in life as "making
lots of money"--a sharp and apparently dismaying shift from the years in which the Peace Corps was
attracting young people by the thousands. College graduates are flocking in unprecedented numbers to
Wall Street, and our headlines are full of stories of people making fortunes by the manipulation of
money. When a company can come away from a failed takeover with a profit of millions of dollars, when
a company is ripe for takeover because it is investing seriously in research instead of turning a
quick profit, the foundations of our economy are shaky indeed. When the hero of the hour is the
entrepreneur rather than the statesman or the healer or the discoverer, then the focus is not on use.
This is not a question of one political party as against another. it is a question of our national
mood and of our national priorities. We will begin to see world peace, I would suggest, when we begin
to ask out loud what use our nation can be to the rest of the world. Whatever the theorists may claim,
competition motivated by greed will not usher in universal prosperity, and neither will the
redistribution of wealth. We will have an economy of scarcity just as long as the name of the game is
to contribute the minimum and extract the maximum. We will begin to experience surpluses when we look
first of all to our contribution, our use, and draw out only what we need to perform that use. Or as
it is stated in our theology,
It is becoming abundantly clear that the poor and the oppressed are not somehow automatically
virtuous. On the individual level, when abused children attain adult strength, they very often become
abusive parents. On the national scale, revolutions by violence seem most often seem to produce new
tyrannies, as we are beginning to recognize especially in the former colonies in Africa. Before women
were granted the right to vote in this country, as astute an individual as Helen Keller honestly
believed that once women could vote, there would be no more war. In Israel, we are seeing perhaps the
most oppressed people of the world discovering the pitfalls of power. It is not, I would suggest, that
"power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely." It is that power enables us to do what we
wish, and strips the masks off from our selfishness.
What would it be like to "desire an abundance for the sake of one's country and the neighbor"? It
would be to have a mission in life, a contribution that one wanted deeply to make, and to work fairly
and honestly for the resources to make that contribution. Or let me make another, perhaps less
palatable, suggestion. It would be to avoid the lottery because one might win, and thereby be faced
with the responsibility of contributing something of at least equal value.
The relevance of this may be clearer in the light of another quotation, bearing in mind the general
principle that uses are the bonds of society.
By uses are meant not only the necessaries of life . . . for one's self and one's own; but also the
good of our country, of the community, and of our fellow-citizen. Mercantile business is such a good
when the love of it is the end, and money is a mediate subservient love; provided the man of business
shuns and is averse to defraudings and evil arts as sins.
Divine Providence n. 220.11
The flow of goods and services is a primary factor in the unity of our country. We have prospered
relative to the rest of the world in large measure because of the scale on which we could operate, the
area, resources, and population included within our boundaries, without barriers to commerce. We are
currently looking with some anxiety at the nascent European Common Market, which could provide stiff
competition in spite of its linguistic diversity. We have long been aware that either Russia or China
could dominate economically if either could resolve its own internal problems.
We should also be aware that international trade can be one of the most potent forces for world unity,
provided there is mutual benefit. The more clearly both parties profit from an arrangement, the more
remote is the likelihood of war between them. By the same token, when the benefit is one-sided, the
effect is divisive. When a country's personal and natural resources are exploited, as was often the
case under colonialism and is still characteristic of too many third-world countries, then it may seem
to the exploited that they have nothing to lose and everything to gain by armed insurrection.
If it seems overly idealistic to expect international conglomerates to renounce any form of
exploitation or inequity, that is simply an indication of how far we have to go before we are within
reach of world unity. Try telling the head of a major company that "Mercantile business is such a good
when the love of it is the end, and money is a mediate subservient love," and see how far you get. We
could make significant steps toward world peace if our legal structures rewarded companies for the
equity of their dealings. We could make some steps toward world peace if such companies got impartial
publicity, and there were equally impartial reporting of abuses; but the direct effects of legal
encouragement would be more effective.
The principle is the same as the personal one, focusing first on the contribution we can make, and
regarding the profit to ourselves simply as a means to that contribution. We cannot honestly recommend
to others policies that we are unwilling to adopt for ourselves, but there is more to it than that.
We cannot add up a vast number of small, personal inequities and expect the sum to be fairness and
justice. The Gospels tell us that those who are faithful in little things are faithful also in great
things. And our theology puts this principle mo re philosophically, as follows:
For every general use is composed of innumerable ones, which are called mediate, administering, and
subservient uses. All and each are coordinated and subordinated according to Divine order, and, taken
together, they constitute and perfect the general use, which is the common good.
Heaven and Hell n. 392
Ronald Reagan did not so much change the mood of the country as strengthen what was already there by
giving it voice. So did Washington, Lincoln, Grant, Hoover, and all the rest, some for better and some
for worse. Just as our single votes are essential to the working of a democratic system, no matter how
insignificant they may seem, so our own attitudes are integral to the national mood. In fact, they are
far more powerful than our votes, because they directly influence all the people we deal with. We
contribute to a more peaceful country, to a kinder and gentler America, whenever we treat anyone
kindly and gently, and the more consistent, the more persistent we are in our kindness and gentleness,
the more contagious is our example.
This does not and cannot mean glossing over evils. To quote Swedenborg again,
But man does not feel and perceive the love of doing uses for the sake of uses, as he does the love of
doing uses for the sake of self; and therefore, while he is doing uses, he does not knwo whether he is
doing them for the sake of the uses, or for the sake of self. But lethim know that he is doing uses
for the sake of uses in proportion as he is shunning evils; for in proportion as anyone is shunning
these, in the same proportion he is doing uses, not from himself, but from the Lord.
If our kindness and gentleness lead us to pretend that nothing is wrong, then they are not from a love
of use. They are almost certainly from a desire to be liked, from a corresponding fear of offending.
But on the principle that the good in the neighbor is the neighbor to be loved, this desire and fear
are wholly misleading. The good in the neighbor is not some abstract principle; it is the angel-to-be,
the Lord flowing in. When the focus is on use, then we address the "erring neighbor" on the assumption
that that individual wants to do his or her best. We stand with that person against his or her
failings. "Shunning evils" cannot be restricted to our treatment of ourselves, if we are to love our
neighbor as we love ourselves.
This has its international equivalent, and I should like to back up for a moment to ground the next
point in as central assertion of our theology. That assertion is that all life flows in from the Lord.
At the point at which it flows in, it is utterly pure and heavenly, but that point, "the inmost," is
quite beyond the reach of our consciousness. As the life flows through the deeper levels of our being,
it is first individualized, and eventually distorted by the unregenerate forms of our own inheritance
and our own making.
If we trace this process in reverse, something interesting happens. We find ourselves looking first at
some of our more antisocial tendencies, finding what may seem to be their roots in our self-concern,
and then discovering that this very self-concern has deeper and more legitimate roots. The
strength--as opposed to the form--of every desire we feel is the Lord's strength. There is a valid
basis for every human effort, however destructive. The Lord is the life of the hells.
On the international scene, this suggests that whenever another nation is at cross purposes with us,
we should first of all try to seek out the legitimate roots of both our and their efforts. There are
two major benefits to this. First of all, as we discover what it is that we legitimately want, we can
become more flexible in our means without in any way compromising our principles. Second, and equally
important, we can begin to talk to the other nation in terms it can understand, because that nation
sees its intentions as legitimate. It is heartening at this time in history, for example, to see other
nations concerned about our national deficit spending. It may be that in the long run, the most
beneficial result of the Reagan years will be the sharp rise in foreign investment in the American
economy. We are no longer the world's banker, but are its greatest debtor. We have lost our economic
independence, and that may well be just what the doctor ordered.
I want to close, though, by stressing the importance of our own individual focus on use. National
policies simply cannot rise much higher than the general level of morality, no matter what the form of
government; and in a democracy the tie is particularly close. I'd like to read, in this connection, a
fascinating quote which at first hearing may seem a bit unrelated.
By this (seeds) are in the potency of conjoining themselves with the use from which comes their
prolific principle; and then, through conjunction with matters from a natural origin, of producing
forms of uses, and then sending them forth as from a womb. . . . This conatus is afterwards continuous
through the root even to the ultimates, and from the ultimates to the primes, in which the use itself
is in its origin. Thus do uses pass into forms; and the forms, in their progression from primes to
ultimates and from ultimates to primes, derive from the use--which is like a soul--that each and all
things of the forms are of some use. It is said that the use is like a soul, because its form is like
a body. It also follows that there is a conatus still more interior, which is the conatus of producing
uses for the animal kingdom through vegetable growths . . . . It also follows that in these there is
an inmost conatus, which is a conatus of performing uses to the human race.
Divine Love and Wisdom n. 310
We can take this back a step, if we wish. We can look at a stone, which would seem to have no
"prolific principle" whatever. But it holds soil in place, and very gradually disintegrates to form
new soil. From this grow plants, which nourish animals, including people, who are potential angels.
The great purpose of world peace is made up of countless little purposes. To quote again,
For every general use is composed of innumerable ones, which are called mediate, administering, and
subservient uses. All and each are coordinated and subordinated according to Divine order, and, taken
together, they constitute and perfect the general use, which is the common good.
Heaven and Hell n. 392
"The common good," on the natural level, is nothing less than world peace--peace, that is, regarded as
living together in the spirit of mutual care. The bonds of society are formed or severed in our
dealings with each other, because we are mediate, administering and subservient uses. We strengthen
the foundations of the common good by some actions, and undermine them by others; and one final quote
may serve to define our task, on whatever level we may be called to serve.
The worship of the Lord itself consists in performing uses; and uses are (in this life) that everyone
should rightly discharge his function in his station; thus [they consist in his] being of service to
his country, to societies, and to the neighbor, from the heart; in his acting sincerely with his
associates; and in performing kind offices prudently, according to the quality of each person. These
uses are chiefly the exercises of charity; and are those through which the Lord is chiefly worshipped.
Frequenting a place of worship, prayers, etc., are also necessary; but without those uses, are of no
avail; for these things are not of life; but teach what the life should be.
Arcana Coelestia n. 7038